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Strategies for Coping with Postpartum Depression

Anchor Light Therapy Collective

Mar 3, 2024

Understanding and navigating postpartum depression

Experiencing postpartum depression (PPD) is a deeply personal and challenging journey that many new mothers experience. It’s a time when feelings of intense sadness, anxiety, and exhaustion envelope you. PPD wraps you in a complex blanket of emotions that can make even the simplest daily care activities for yourself and your baby feel insurmountable. It might provoke feelings such as, “I feel like I can’t cope”, “this doesn’t feel like me”, and “something is wrong”. Beyond the emotional turmoil, PPD can manifest physically, causing symptoms like headaches, back pain, and gastrointestinal distress, adding another layer to the struggle.

PPD profoundly impacts your lifestyle, potentially affecting the precious bond with your baby, altering the dynamic with your partner, and shifting the overall harmony of your family. It’s a time when the support, understanding, and care from those around you are more crucial than ever. Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and with the right support and interventions, hope and healing are within reach.

9 ways to improve your mental health if you’re struggling with postpartum depression

The journey through postpartum can feel overwhelming and lonely for many, yet embracing a variety of compassionate approaches can light the way to relief and guide you toward well-being if you experience postpartum depression (PPD) or depressive symptoms. Understanding that PPD affects everyone differently, it’s important to gently explore a spectrum of supportive strategies. This process of discovery can help identify the methods that truly speak to your individual needs, ensuring you feel understood, supported, and less alone as you navigate this challenging chapter.

1. Recognize and accept your feelings

  • Realizing that PPD is a widespread condition that many new mothers face might bring some solace. Gently acknowledging your emotions and experiences could be a comforting initial step toward healing.

2. Build a strong support network

  • Leaning on your partner, family members, and/or friends for support, or connecting with other new mothers through non-judgemental sharing support groups, might provide you with valuable companionship and emotional support that is unbiased and shame-free. You might also be able to find support from healthcare providers, lactation consultants, mental health or healthcare providers, or postpartum doulas.
  • Personalize the meaning of “help” according to your unique needs and preferences. Whether it involves assistance with household tasks or simply needing someone to cradle your baby while you take a moment for self-care, it’s essential to recognize and articulate what form of support you need. Identifying the specific ways in which you can be supported empowers you and your loved ones to create a nurturing environment tailored to your journey toward healing.

3. Prioritize rest and sleep

Although it can be challenging with a newborn, attempting to manage your sleep and rest might have a positive impact on your mental health. Improvements like reaching out for help with nighttime feedings can contribute to better sleep leading to improved mood and resilience. Some individuals experiencing PPD might not be able to sleep. Ask yourself, “ Given the opportunity to sleep, can I sleep?” Rest is critical for your well-being, if you find that you can’t sleep make sure you take the time to rest.

4. Set realistic expectations

Adjusting your expectations about motherhood can help reduce feelings of inadequacy and pressure during this period. Embracing imperfection and breaking down goals into small attainable goals could offer a sense of achievement and reduce stress.

When setting goals and expectations, always remember, we are not supposed to do it all ourselves. We lean on our networks for support. Ask yourself, “Is there something I’d like to ask somebody to do to help?”.

5. Focus on nutrition and physical activity

Adopting a balanced diet and incorporating simple exercises into your routine might help improve your mood and energy levels. Even light physical activity can be beneficial. Some moms experiencing PPD might be eating poorly and become malnourished. Make sure to ask yourself, “What have I eaten today?” and “Do I have an appetite?”.

6. Practice mindfulness and relaxation techniques

Integrating mindfulness practices, meditation, or yoga into your daily routine might enhance your emotional well-being. Techniques such as deep breathing can activate the body’s relaxation response. This can be particularly helpful in moments of overwhelm, providing a quick and accessible way to manage stress levels.

7. Take time for yourself

Making time for self-care and hobbies you enjoy is crucial for preserving your sense of identity and achieving a balance between motherhood and personal interests. We recharge our electronic devices, let’s learn to recharge ourselves. Ask yourself, “Is there one thing I’d like to do this week to take care of myself?”. Caring for yourself is caring for your child. Moms can’t pour from empty cups.

8. Communicate openly with your partner

Encouraging open dialogue about your emotions and specific needs plays a pivotal role in jointly navigating the shifts in family dynamics and responsibilities that come with this new chapter. Communicating with your partner about your needs is a crucial step in your journey to healing.

9. Seek professional help

If you find yourself struggling, reaching out for professional advice might be a helpful step. Therapy and medication, under the guidance of a healthcare provider, can offer significant support and open up pathways to recovery.

Remember, finding what works for you might involve some trial and error. It’s important to be patient with yourself and open to exploring different strategies to support your mental health during this challenging time.

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Postpartum depression vs Baby Blues

Distinguishing if you are experiencing PPD or Baby blues is essential for understanding and addressing your emotional well-being. While both conditions involve emotional upheaval following childbirth, they differ significantly in their duration, severity of symptoms, impact on daily life, and the need for treatment.

Baby Blues are quite common, affecting up to 80% of new mothers. This condition is characterized by mild symptoms such as mood swings, sadness, irritability, anxiety, and trouble sleeping. These symptoms are largely attributed to the sudden hormonal changes after childbirth, combined with the exhaustion and adjustment to a new caregiving role. The baby blues typically surface within the first few days postpartum and resolve spontaneously within two weeks, without the need for medical intervention. Although the symptoms can be distressing, they generally do not severely impact a mother’s ability to care for her baby.

Postpartum Depression (PPD) is a more severe form of emotional distress that can emerge during the first year after giving birth, most commonly within the first three months. PPD affects approximately 1 in 7 new mothers, manifesting in symptoms that are more intense and enduring than those of the baby blues. These include deep sadness, severe mood swings, withdrawal from loved ones, a lack of interest in the baby, feelings of worthlessness, hopelessness, and, in extreme cases, thoughts of harming oneself or the baby. Unlike the baby blues, PPD can substantially impair a mother’s functioning, making it difficult for her to perform daily tasks, care for her baby, or even take care of her own basic needs.

The impact on daily functioning is a critical difference between the two. While the baby blues may cause temporary emotional distress, they do not typically prevent a new mother from caring for her baby. On the other hand, PPD can lead to significant difficulties in performing everyday activities and fulfilling maternal duties, necessitating professional intervention. PPD requires a more comprehensive treatment approach, often involving therapy, support groups, and medication.

What triggers depression during postpartum?

Navigating the journey of postpartum depression involves understanding its delicate triggers, including hormonal fluctuations, the exhaustion from lack of sleep, the stress brought on by new life adjustments, and the feeling of not having enough support. With compassion and empathy towards yourself, recognizing these triggers allows you to thoughtfully develop strategies that can help soothe and reduce their impact, ensuring a path towards healing and support.

Postpartum depression recovery and understanding the process

Navigating the path to recovery from PPD is a deeply personal journey that unfolds differently for everyone. It’s a process that calls for an abundance of patience, self-compassion, and the setting of realistic expectations.


It’s important to understand that while significant improvements can be made, it’s not uncommon for the journey to involve ups and downs. The duration of postpartum can vary widely, for some extending from months to possibly years if left untreated. Yet, with patience and a personalized treatment plan, many find rays of hope and signs of improvement in just a few weeks, leading to significant healing within 6 to 12 months. Recognizing that recovery takes time and allowing yourself the space to heal at your own pace can alleviate some of the pressure that new mothers often feel.


Recovery from PPD is also about nurturing oneself, providing oneself grace and compassion, reminding yourself that you were never meant to walk this journey alone, and understanding that it’s okay to ask for help. With the right support, whether through PPD therapy, medication, support groups, or a combination of these, trust that recovery is indeed attainable. Remember, taking the first step by reaching out for help is a sign of strength, and with time, healing is possible.

Is it possible to avoid PPD?

While it’s not always possible to completely avoid postpartum depression, certain strategies can help reduce the risk. These include prenatal education, establishing a strong support system, practicing stress reduction techniques, making healthy lifestyle choices, and planning ahead for the postpartum period.

Postpartum depression vs postpartum psychosis

Both conditions occur after childbirth but vary significantly in their prevalence, symptoms, severity, onset, impact on day-to-day functioning, and the methods used for treatment.

Postpartum depression (PPD) is relatively common and includes symptoms that can range from mild to severe, including persistent sadness, anxiety, fatigue, feelings of worthlessness or guilt, difficulty bonding with the baby, and withdrawal from family and friends. These symptoms typically develop within the first few weeks after childbirth but can start earlier during pregnancy or later in the first year postpartum. While PPD can significantly impair a mother’s ability to care for herself and her baby, it is treatable with a combination of therapy and medication. Support groups and education on coping strategies can also play a vital role in recovery.

Postpartum Psychosis, on the other hand, is a rare but severe condition that typically develops suddenly within the first two weeks after childbirth. Symptoms are acute and may include delusions or strange beliefs, hallucinations, feeling very irritated, hyperactivity, decreased need for or inability to sleep, paranoia, and rapid mood swings. Due to the severity and rapid onset of symptoms, postpartum psychosis is considered a medical emergency requiring immediate attention. Treatment often involves a combination of antipsychotic medications, mood stabilizers, and in some cases, hospitalization to ensure the safety of both the mother and the baby. Early detection and treatment are crucial for a full recovery.

Talk with a mental health professional

Seeking a mental health professional during times of significant lifestyle change, dealing with depression, or even just trying to understand depression, when facing a bleak outlook can offer unique value propositions. Professionals can provide tailored treatment plans, support, and strategies designed to address the specific challenges of postpartum depression, offering hope and a path towards recovery. Their expertise and compassionate understanding can be a beacon of light during challenging times, helping new mothers navigate the complex emotions and experiences of postpartum depression.




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